A relationship is a platform that brings together two or more people, exposed to different environmental upbringing, conditions, and strive, conflicts and misunderstanding can arise.

A relationship, no matter the length of it, can be one of the most beautiful experiences of life, but the lack of understanding can make it an unhealthy experience. So the question is, what makes a healthy relationship?

Many relationships have broken up, and some marriages are separated, not because they don’t love themselves but because they don’t understand themselves.

Understanding is one major factor that sustains a relationship and creates the right atmosphere for love to grow. No matter the level of love you have for your spouse or date, without understanding that love can’t grow because understanding deepens love.

Love is not enough!

Have you considered marrying someone who understands you? Have you thought of dating someone who understands your emotions? To build a lasting relationship, understand love is not enough.

Love is strong by a willingness to understand. You don’t need to understand people to love them, but you need to understand people to build a lasting relationship with them.

Love itself cannot hold a relationship together, it needs the support of understanding to stand the test of time.

Love brings people together in a relationship, but love on its own can’t keep them together because love is just like the foundation of a building.

Love is pleasant, but it loses its value when the relationship lacks understanding. You may want to ask, what is the need of love if it doesn’t guarantee the success of the relationship? Now, when couples always fight in their relationship, that love will naturally lose its existence in that relationship.

Understanding makes love honourable and satisfying because you can easily express your love to any extent when the person you love understands you.

What is understanding?

Understanding is the ability to comprehend someone and relate with the person accordingly. It is to be more aware, sensitive and initiative with the people we love.

It’s hard to communicate with someone you don’t understand and not have issues with them.

Understanding will make you study someone carefully, observing their strength and weakness so you can relate with them properly because if you don’t do that, you may likely have issues with them.

It’s easier to relate with someone you understand because, without understanding, you won’t be able to love someone wholeheartedly. If you love and don’t understand, you will have lots of conflicts in your relationship. And once conflicts rule over your relationship, you will naturally grow apart. The more you fight and quarrel with your partner, the less love and affection you will feel for your partner.

One of the proof to say you love someone is that you are more careful in relating to them because you understand them.

Understanding is the binding force that keeps couples together because the more they understand themselves, the fewer conflicts they will have, the deeper the love between them and the closer they become.

Do you want your partner to find your presence welcoming, always looking forward to spending time with you? Then develop the attribute of understanding because it pays to build such a welcoming environment in your relationship.

Understanding is a mental and a deliberate work because you don’t wish for its establishment, but you work hard to see its reality in your relationship.

So it’s not too late to put things right in your relationship with your spouse or date because you both can do this.

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