12 PEOPLE YOU SHOULDN'T DATE
In a relationship, nobody is perfect, but there are vital signs that can destroy you and the relationship you shouldn’t ignore because if you do, you may find yourself in heartbreak.
There are certain people you shouldn’t date if you don’t want to experience emotional trauma, and below are 12 people you shouldn’t date.
One thing that set a healthy sound foundation for a relationship is clarity.
Avoid dating someone who is clear, always avoiding and ignoring your questions about their past, present and future.
Pride is one of the killers of a relationship and dating someone who’s proud is dangerous to you.
When you commit your heart to a proud and arrogant person, you are putting yourself at risk because it will crush your emotions and self-esteem.
3. Don’t date someone who doesn't accept their mistakes and apologize:
Relationship isn’t always rosy because there will be times where
there will be some misunderstanding and quarreling but the offender should be
able to apologize.
If the offender cannot apologize for the offence, the misunderstanding may
linger.
So avoid dating someone who can’t accept their wrongs and apologize for them
but point the accusing finger, because if you do, you may suffer for it later
on.
4. Don’t date someone who hasn’t overcome their past hurt:
Entering a relationship with someone
who’s yet to overcome their past hurt, may put you at risk because there’s
every chance you may be compared to the person who hurt them.
This will do more damage to you than good because you may start paying for what
you know nothing about.
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5. Don’t date someone who lacks
self-control:
Self-control is one of the strength of a genuine love because without it, love
to a large extent will love its value.
Don’t date someone who doesn’t have control over their mouth, emotions and
actions because it may harm you greatly.
Also read: 7 things that may happen to you if you hold on to the pain.
6. Don’t date someone is hardly around:
Avoid dating someone who is selfish, who doesn’t call or text you. Someone who
doesn’t check on you shouldn’t be considered for a relationship.
They don’t make you feel love and special, and they are not there when you need them most and when you ask them why they aren’t checking up on you, they will always say “I was busy”.
Avoid dating someone who only makes you feel special and loved when they are
with you, but when they are not around you, they treat you like you don’t
exist.
Listening is one of the vital elements that resolves conflicts and helps to build understanding in a relationship, and when it’s lacking, the relationship will suffer in the hands of conflicts.
So avoid dating someone who doesn’t listen to you when you talk, doesn’t listen to your emotions etc. because it will be hard for you to resolve issues when they arise.
Avoid dating someone who cares about
their own self alone, not minding the people around them.
They are fond of expecting people to listen to their problems, always demanding
for attention, and want their needs to be meant, but when time for them to
help, they suddenly act busy feeding you with I don’t care attitude.
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10.
Don’t date someone who have trust issues:
Avoid dating someone who finds it hard to trust due to their past experiences. They are always suspecting and assuming your actions making it difficult for you to breathe peacefully.
11. Don’t date someone who doesn’t
meet their own set goals:
Avoid dating someone who finds it hard to trust due to their past experiences.
They are always suspecting and assuming your actions making it difficult for
you to breathe peacefully.
12. Don’t date someone whose attention is for everybody:
Don’t consider a person who gives attention to everyone who crosses their
part for a relationship because such a person will probably cheat on you
without thinking.
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